What photographers wish you knew before your wedding day
Discover what photographers wish every couple knew before their wedding day. From lighting tips to candid moments, these insights will help you relax, enjoy the day, and get wedding photos you’ll truly love.
Wedding days are beautifully unpredictable, and after capturing so many, I’ve learned a few things I wish every couple knew before their big day. These little insights can help you feel more relaxed, get photos you’ll truly love, and enjoy the moments without stress. Here’s what photographers like me wish you knew beforehand!
1. The light matters more than the location
A stunning venue is wonderful, but great light is what truly makes your photos shine. Natural light is a photographer’s best friend, so consider how the light falls during your ceremony, portraits, and reception. And remember – if what you’re after is bright photos, don’t book a dark venue!
2. Candid moments are the ones you’ll treasure most
While I’ll definitely capture some portraits, the little in-between moments are where the magic often happens. The laughter during speeches, a stolen glance between you and your partner, or your best friend tearing up on the dance floor—these are the instances you’ll look back on with joy.
3. Trust your photographer’s creative eye
You hired your photographer because you love their work, so trust them to guide you. Sometimes the most unexpected locations or angles create the most breathtaking images. Whether it means stepping into a patch of wildflowers or standing in front of an old brick wall, be open to the creative process. But also, never be afraid to speak up if you have an idea of your own! Your gallery should reflect your vision, which means it’s a team effort.
4. Getting ready photos are about more than makeup
The moments leading up to your ceremony are filled with anticipation and raw emotion. I love capturing the candid exchanges with your friends and family, the details of your dress, and those first deep breaths before you walk down the aisle. Keep your space clutter-free if possible—it makes for cleaner, more beautiful images.
5. A little buffer time is your best friend
Wedding timelines almost always run behind. Build in extra time for getting ready, portraits, and travel between locations. This way, if something takes longer than expected, you won’t feel rushed, and we’ll still have time to capture those gorgeous, relaxed shots.
6. Your emotions will show in your photos
If you’re stressed or overwhelmed, it will be visible in your photos. Take moments to breathe, soak it all in, and enjoy yourself (or decompress in private if needed).
7. Golden hour is worth the hype
If you can sneak away for a few golden-hour portraits, do it. The soft, warm light just before sunset is absolute magic, adding a romantic glow that’s hard to replicate.
8. It’s okay if things don’t go perfectly
Rain, wind, and little hiccups are all part of the day. Some of my favourite images come from unexpected moments—a spontaneous dance in the rain or a windswept veil. Embracing whatever the day brings will make for the most memorable photos, and result in less stress!
9. Family photos don’t have to take forever
With a little planning, family photos can be quick and painless. I recommend making a clear list of the group shots you want, and designating someone who knows both sides of the family to help gather people. It keeps things moving efficiently!
Enjoy the moment—I’ve got the rest covered
My biggest wish for you? Fully experience your day. Dance, laugh, cry, and be present. The more you immerse yourself in the joy of the day, the more genuine and beautiful your photos will be.
If you’re looking for a photographer who will capture all those authentic, heartfelt moments, I’d love to hear from you!