Top 7 tips for the “getting ready” portion of your wedding day (from a wedding photographer)

Discover 7 expert tips for a stress-free and meaningful "getting ready" portion of your wedding day. These photographer-written suggestions will help you stay present, capture beautiful moments, and start your day with ease.

The "getting ready" portion of your wedding day is incredibly exciting and emotionally-charged. It's when the nerves start to buzz, the excitement builds, and meaningful memories begin to take shape. As a wedding photographer, I’ve learned that this part of the day isn’t just about preparation—it’s about creating and absorbing heartfelt, organic moments that set the tone for the celebration ahead. These tips will help you make the most of your morning while also setting you up for stunning photos you’ll treasure forever.

1. Make sure to eat and stay hydrated.

It’s easy to get swept up in the excitement of the morning, but don’t forget to fuel your body. Eating a nutritious breakfast and drinking water throughout the morning will keep your energy levels up and reduce the chances of feeling lightheaded or fatigued later. A happy, healthy start means you’ll feel your best as the day unfolds.

2. Take a few moments alone to soak it all in.

Amid the flurry of getting ready, carve out a few minutes of quiet to gather your thoughts, jot down some feelings, or just sit and breathe. Reflecting on the journey that’s brought you to this day will help calm your nerves and allow you to center yourself. These peaceful moments can also lead to beautiful, candid photographs that capture the emotion and anticipation of your morning.

3. Consider reading a letter from your partner.

If you’ve planned ahead and exchanged letters with your partner, reading it while you’re getting ready can be one of the most emotional and grounding moments of the day. Taking the time to absorb their words will not only calm any jitters but also remind you of the love and commitment you’re about to celebrate. It’s an emotionally-charged activity that often brings tears and smiles—moments that are so meaningful to experience and capture on camera.

4. Invest in a few cute pieces for a flat lay.

Consider adding extra details to your wedding day flat lay to make it more personal and visually stunning. Items like a velvet ring box, dried flowers, an heirloom handkerchief, or a meaningful keepsake can help elevate your photographer’s detail shots. These flat lays provide a beautiful snapshot of the little things that made your day uniquely yours.

5. Make sure at least one groomsman knows how to tie a tie and attach a boutonnière.

It’s always a small detail that causes big confusion—who can tie a tie and properly attach a boutonnière? To avoid a last-minute scramble, designate a groomsman to be the expert in these tasks ahead of time. Having someone ready to assist with this key moment will keep everything running smoothly and stress-free.

6. Allow plenty of time for hair and makeup.

Rushing through hair and makeup will only add stress to your morning. Plan for extra time to ensure your beauty team has space to work their magic without feeling rushed. When you give yourself this breathing room, you’ll feel more relaxed and confident, knowing you have some time to spare.

7. Carve out some time for solo bridal or groom portraits.

While it’s fun to capture moments with the bridal party and groomsmen, don’t forget to dedicate time for solo portraits. These photos are your chance to step into the spotlight and reflect on the magnitude of the day while being photographed in all your wedding day glory! They’re a perfect opportunity to capture how you’re feeling in this moment—whether it’s excitement, joy, or a sense of calm before the celebration begins.

The “getting ready” portion of your wedding day is more than just a prelude to the main event—it’s a time filled with energy, emotion, and meaningful moments. By following these tips, you’ll set yourself up for a calm, smooth, and enjoyable morning that lays the foundation for the rest of your day. Most importantly, this time is about savouring the anticipation and surrounding yourself with love, laughter, and excitement. With a little preparation, you’ll not only feel ready but will also create memories and photographs that you’ll cherish for a lifetime.

Get access to my exclusive Wedding Day Tips Guide

When you hire me to capture your day, you’ll receive my comprehensive Wedding Day Tips Guide—a collection of 111 tips designed to help you navigate every moment of your big day, from the getting ready portion to the last song on the dance floor. It’s packed with advice to help you stay organized, enjoy the day to the fullest, and capture unforgettable memories.

If you’re planning your wedding and looking for a photographer to bring your vision to life, I’d love to chat! Let’s connect and create something beautiful together.